[转帖]Ten Rules for Being Human（做人的10条须知）

by Cherie Carter-Scott

1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it's yours to keep for the entire period.

2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called, "life."

3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial, error, and experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiments that ultimately "work."

4. Lessons are repeated until they are learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson.

5. Learning lessons does not end. There's no part of life that doesn't contain its lessons. If you're alive, that means there are still lessons to be learned.

6. "There" is no better a place than "here." When your "there" has become a "here", you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than "here."

7. Other people are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.

8. What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.

9. Your answers lie within you. The answers to life's questions lie within you. All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.

10. You will forget all this.

1.你会有一个身体。不管你喜欢还是讨厌它，它将伴你一生。

2.你会学到很多课程。你被录取到一个全日制非正式的学校：生活。

3.生活中没有错误，只有课程。成长是一个尝试、错误、实验的过程。“失败”的实验也是这个过程中很重要的一部分，因为其最终将成功。

4.课程将会重复上演，直到你完全学会这些课程。并且在你掌握之前这些课程将以多样的形式出现。当你学会了一个课程，然后进入另一个课程。

5.课程的学习永无止境。生活中时时处处都有课程的设置，如果你还活着，这意味着还有课程要学习。

6.“那里”是和“这里”一样好的地方。当你的“那里”变成“这里”时，将又一个“那里”看起来比“这里”要好。

7.其他人的存在不过仅仅是你的镜子而已。只有当它反射出让你喜欢或者讨厌的画面时，你才会喜欢或者讨厌别人的举动。

8.生活的内容和形式完全取决于你。你有足够的资源和工具，怎么利用它们取决于你，决定权在你。

9.你对生活的回答完全在你脑中。你要做的只是去看，去听，去相信。